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Hostess Club Etiquette in Akihabara: Rules Every Guest Should Know

Thinking of visiting a Hostess Club in Akihabara? These elegant nightlife venues offer luxurious settings and charming conversations, but they also follow strict etiquette rules to ensure a comfortable experience for everyone—guests and hostesses alike.

Whether you're a first-timer or a returning guest, understanding the basic dos and don'ts will help you enjoy your visit to the fullest.

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1. No Physical Contact

Touching the hostesses is strictly prohibited.

This includes:

  • Hugs, hand-holding, or touching her clothing

  • Attempting to guide her physically

  • Invading personal space

Respect is the foundation of the Hostess Club experience.


2. No Unauthorized Photography

Photography rules are taken seriously:

  • Photos of the interior or staff are not allowed

  • Taking selfies or videos is also prohibited unless explicitly permitted

  • Some clubs may offer souvenir photos (e.g., with a nominated hostess), but these must be arranged by staff

Always ask the staff for any pictures.


3. Respect Hostess Privacy

Hostesses go by stage names while working, and their personal information is private.

Please avoid:

  • Asking for their real name or contact details

  • Requesting social media like Instagram or LINE

  • Bringing up private topics unless they do so first in a professional context

Keeping things within club boundaries shows respect and ensures a fun experience for everyone.


4. No Private Meetings Outside the Club

It’s a hard rule: do not ask a hostess to meet outside of work.

This includes:

  • Inviting her to dinner or drinks outside club hours

  • Waiting outside the club after your session

  • Suggesting future meetups in private

Most clubs have strict consequences for customers if this boundary is crossed.


5. No Inappropriate Behavior or Speech

Hostess Clubs are luxurious, refined environments. Inappropriate behavior includes:

  • Sexual remarks, suggestive jokes, or lewd questions

  • Criticizing or mocking hostesses

  • Getting intoxicated and behaving aggressively

Even mild rudeness can result in being asked to leave.


Additional Guidelines for Akihabara Hostess Clubs

Using Your Phone:

  • Take calls away from your table, ideally in the lobby or outside.

  • Keep texting discreet and to a minimum during your session.

Staying in Your Seat:

  • Do not move to another table without staff approval.

  • Avoid wandering around the venue.

Talking to Other Guests:

  • Generally discouraged unless it's a group booking.

  • Respect others’ privacy and personal space.

Respect = Best Experience

Akihabara’s Hostess Clubs offer a world-class blend of elegance and entertainment. Following these rules not only shows good manners—it also enhances your experience and helps foster a positive atmosphere for everyone.

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